Getting along with College-Love.
“Do you have a girlfriend?”
“Do you have a boyfriend?”
Nowadays, these two irritating
questions seems to be the most trendified enquiries students seem to make
in college. And yeah, I encountered these a number of times. Guess what, you do
not keep a partner in your college life to “share feelings” or for somewhat
similar weird no non-sense. You need one, just to show others that
you have a gorgeous partner in your strangled life, and you are enjoying
it with heaven’s blessings. Cruel words, huh? Seriously, I do not have much
softer words for this.
The question is:Why do you go to
college? Simple answer is "to study." Too boring an answer for this
post.And even I don't visit college to study.Who does? No one. But,for most of
the teens, the real answer in your mind is: to meet my girlfriend/boyfriend,
provided obviously if you are not single.Don't worry about that. Even the
weirdest geeks (no offense,if you are one) roam around the premises with a
partner around him.And, mind you I am not jealous at all. Such is the trend
that, if you walk around without at least one opposite gender with you, like
the case with me (sadly, enough), you are taken to be a gay. As easy as it
gets. And, in case if your lucky, beautiful partner does not study with you in
the same college, then your best friend becomes the cell-phone. No matter what,
you put that device over your ear for ages and whisper in the
softest of voices, which is impossible to hear from even close range, save the
person who is on the other side of the phone. And, mark my words, I mean it
when I said it is “impossible”. So, the thing is, you are studying in
college, you must have a girlfriend/boyfriend. And, you are not normal or
“straight” if you don’t have one. Incidently, in the latest of happenings, the
word college is replaced by “school”, which means you do not have to reach as
far as college life to lose your "being-single" tag. Start right away
from school life, and yes, this is the truth. I am so much fascinated by this
life-style that I am still not leading it.A real irony in my saying.Yeah, you
heard that right. When I visit places, especially malls, and yes with my mom (I
am proud to announce that I am her shopping companion) or with my
friends, why is it that all the girls I observe, walk with a bloke with her? My
question is: Is there not a single girl who does not have a
better-half? Or is my observation too poor? Now, now I am not
complaining either. Such is the funny side of life.
The motive of this post is not to judge if having a boyfriend or girlfriend is good or bad. Neither am I forcing you all to leave your independent, the being-happily-single life , nor am I interested in justifying that I am not a gay, as I am also still happily single. I just want to say that leading a college life doesn’t mean I must have a girlfriend. Many of my cousins, and even some of my friends still believe that I am secretly having a girlfriend, and I am not coming out with the story. As funny as it gets. And I realy hope their doubts get cleared after going through this, in case they believe I am being honest enough with this writing piece. So, friends, if you are not single, please do not curse me with those insane thoughts about me. Spare me if you can. I am not saying loving someone is a crime.No, it isn't. I have no intention of hurting your beautiful relation, as it is obviously the best thing in life:LOVE. So, enjoy it as far as you can. Have a lovely life, friend.
The motive of this post is not to judge if having a boyfriend or girlfriend is good or bad. Neither am I forcing you all to leave your independent, the being-happily-single life , nor am I interested in justifying that I am not a gay, as I am also still happily single. I just want to say that leading a college life doesn’t mean I must have a girlfriend. Many of my cousins, and even some of my friends still believe that I am secretly having a girlfriend, and I am not coming out with the story. As funny as it gets. And I realy hope their doubts get cleared after going through this, in case they believe I am being honest enough with this writing piece. So, friends, if you are not single, please do not curse me with those insane thoughts about me. Spare me if you can. I am not saying loving someone is a crime.No, it isn't. I have no intention of hurting your beautiful relation, as it is obviously the best thing in life:LOVE. So, enjoy it as far as you can. Have a lovely life, friend.
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